yes, sorry if that came off harsh. In back to mback days of Rb diving in the keys, I used air dil and 17/40, water temp was above 80 F, The air dil felt like a sauna, the He mix would go in really cool and the warm up, but not as much as the air. Then a shot of He dil was like drinking cool water. Keep in mind I do not get cold until the temps are in the 60's and I do get uncomfortable when the water is too warm. So, that's how it works for me.
That has not been my experience so that is why I asked.