Hi Paul, your setup has 6kg in 2l tanks and 7kg in sling tank excluding regs, 13 total. 2 x 7l are 15.2 kg excluding regs. Add on your additional reg and we are probably talking 1kg difference. I am also more streamlined as I don't have a sling tank, the frontal area of 2's vs 7's would be no more than a few cm squared difference. As for what it weighs in total, no idea yet as I don't have the unit....it is on its way. But if we took your unit as an example at 26kg + 7kg in the stage, I would be 2 kilos above you. The difference being you can carry the stage separately if you see fit, I cannot. Having jumped off rocking boats with twin 15's, 3 stages and a scooter....the slight difference won't be the deal breaker for me.
I guess the nub of my point is that I don't see a downside in being able to fit bigger tanks. Like you I can also run 2l's if I should choose. I do however see a downside if you can only accept small tanks as 80's are commonly available almost everywhere diving occurs, 2s, 3s etc are more rebreather specific and I don't want to carry cylinders.
Take what I say with a grain of salt, you have forgotten more about rebreathers than I know, perhaps my mind will be shaped over time to follow your line of thinking.