Mark,
Unfortunately it boils down to human behaviour and the potential for us to make silly decisions, even when you know (looking back) what you did was wrong. Part of that is because over time you have made re-adjustments to what is acceptable and got away with it.
emmbee posted a very good link which I would advise all on here to watch which concerns the 'Normalisation of Deviance' (4 links -
one,
two,
three and
four) in which the presenter talks about some very bad decisions in the Challenger disaster and the continual validation of those bad decisions because nothing went wrong. As you get further along the line and nothing bad has happened, your are making new baselines as to what is acceptable. Challenger Mission #2, O-ring damaged through heat, should have stopped the missions. They cut another o-ring, tested it to temp and pressure, it didn't fail. Great, we have just proved that we have the correct safety margins. This happened on a number of missions until the fateful one

Each time the poor decision was validated because nothing bad happened.
Despite the risks being present in diving, there are fortunately not too many fatalities but I bet there are a shedload of near misses. I would guess that major changes in behaviour follow 'safe dangerous episodes' where a near-miss scared the proverbial out of the diver - you have said that your own behaviour changed when certain things happened.
However, there are still people who will go diving despite being told that their kit is unsafe and what they are doing dangerous, sometimes they survive, sometimes they don't. This isn't limited to diving, but happens elsewhere
link too, a link I have provided previously.
I heard over the weekend of an incident where a diver had been told of a number of failure points on their equipment (CCR and stages) that would likely end up with them dead if they dived it. A short time later he was rescued and resuscitated after he decided to ignore the advice of the instructor who had taught him on a course in the past.
How do we stop it happening? I have some ideas but will see what I can get by asking some questions.
- If you saw someone (a stranger on a hardboat trip) doing something dangerous with their equipment (assembly, alarms still going, pre-breathe, incorrect connections etc) would you walk up to them and say 'stop'? If not, what would stop you?
- If you saw one of your mates doing the same, would say 'stop' and sort the issue out?
- Would you go to the lengths of removing something that prevented them from diving? Would you 'throw your dive' to save theirs?
- How many pieces of life support equipment are you willing to not be working 100% and still get into the water with?
- At what point in a dive are you willing to can the dive if it isn't 100% (in your mind)?
I need to find the reference to back this up but have read it somewhere recently, people are more likely to continue an activity despite it being 'against the rules' the longer they keep on doing the activity and they 'get away with it'. This could be part of the self-validation of crap decisions I mentioned above.
The majority of divers are time poor (although a large percentage are also cash poor!) and do not want to miss a dive. They will push the limits to make sure they get in the water even if they are mentally or physically not prepared to do the dive. If this dive is also a new mark or known as a fantastic wreck or cave, there are additional pressures to get in.
Jill H mentioned in a presentation about not jumping because her kit wasn't working properly and decided to can the dive and as a consequence she got grief from others on the boat who said 'It'll be alright...'
Peer pressure can be a very bad thing, it can also be a very good thing if it is channelled in the right direction.
Example from a recent course where the instructor and student were using the new TDI 'pre-flight' checklist. The instructor had finished his checks and had purposely slowed down his rate so the student was matching him. The instructor kept telling the student to not worry about time, but to do the checks, and yet the student missed the last item which was to make sure the bailout was turned on. Turns out after discussion it was because the student did not want to be 'late' despite the instructor saying 'take your time'...
Regards